4th of July is just around the corner, which means barbeque parties, parades, fireworks, and celebrating the independence of the United States! Holidays can be hard for individuals struggling with an eating disorder, disordered eating patterns, and/or body image issues. Food is a large part of celebrating holidays in our culture! People like to grill out on holidays, especially the 4th of July, which means appetizers, burgers, hot dogs, casseroles, and dessert! This can be a stressful time for individuals with an eating disorder or history of an eating disorder as many of these foods fall in the category of “fear foods”. The 4th of July is often spent at the pool, lake, beach, or just outside — which typically means a swimsuit! This can be anxiety provoking in itself. Check out my blog post on Swimsuit Season if this is something you or a loved one is struggling with.
So how can we still attend these events without feeling triggered and actually enjoy ourselves? First, you do not have to over-indulge because it is a holiday. Plate your meal and make sure you are including a variety of foods. Be mindful of your hunger/fullness cues. You are allowed to enjoy a slice of cake or cookie because it tastes good! Also, it is very normal to have a burger or hot dog with a couple of sides! Your body still needs energy even if you are “just” relaxing in the sun! Remember, one meal will not cause you to gain weight. Eating disorders love to isolate. If you are thinking about skipping the fireworks show or swim party, ask yourself why? The more you give into your eating disorder the more power you are giving it. Lastly, enjoy yourself. Practice being in the present moment. If you are worried about being in a swimsuit, know you are not alone. As a society, we hyperfocus on what others will think of us when in reality most people are more focused on themselves. With that being said, avoid body comparing — it is not helpful for anyone! If this is something you are worried about, talk to someone about it. This could be your therapist, dietitian, or supportive friend/family member.
Holidays are meant to be enjoyed. You are allowed to go to that party, eat what you (not your eating disorder) wants, and relax because you are more than deserving. holiday stress relief tips for families can help you navigate the hustle and bustle of this busy season. Prioritizing quality time together, setting realistic expectations, and taking breaks can create a more enjoyable experience. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help and lean on each other to make the holidays less overwhelming. as you prepare for this season, keep in mind some tips for a stressfree thanksgiving to help make the experience even more enjoyable. focus on spending quality time with loved ones and prioritizing self-care in the chaos of the festivities. remember that it’s okay to set boundaries and take breaks when needed, ensuring you embrace the joy of the holiday. one of the best ways to create cherished memories is by planning summer vacation ideas for families. Whether it’s a road trip to the beach or exploring a national park, there’s so much to discover together. Embrace the time spent with loved ones and make every moment count.
Authored by Emily Baum, M.S., RDN, LD
